There is nothing hotter than a man who actualizes his potential.
Even if a man strives for his potential and doesn’t actualize it but TRIES and does the best he can, THAT IS HOT TOO!
It’s the men that don’t try, the men that don’t care, and require someone to whoop their ass into gear that are just as sad as Country Songs on repeat.
Awake Women know what we don’t want. We’ve spent countless years and relationships figuring it out.
So, let’s talk about the good stuff. Let’s talk about WHAT MAKES A MAN A CUT ABOVE THE REST.
Women are not as hard to please as men think. We just crave a depth of character and soul that requires a man’s awareness and effort.
Every woman wants a man who cares about being the best version of himself he can possibly be.
THAT IS SEXY.
THAT IS WHAT WOMEN WANT.
If you want to know more about what women and want, take a look:
10 Magnificent QUALITIES In MEN
We women love it when you men seduce our senses. A man who takes the time to rouse a woman’s senses with his hands is a man of fire, passion and intrigue. He is ALIVE and we can feel it. So many men don’t know how to bring their soul, their heart, or the feelings to a woman’s body, so when a man does he is the most precious creature imaginable to us. Women want to be touched, caressed, kissed, loved, desired. We want to receive as much as we want to give. It’s not just you men that like affection and touch. Even the small things: the way you put a lock of hair behind her ear, trace your hands up the back of her neck, trace your fingers over her lips… you get the picture. Or touch her for no reason at all other than you just want to connect.
TOUCH: trace your fingers over her skin, teasingly, delicately, erotically. Don’t just go for the goods. Women want to feel your soul radiate through your fingertips. We want to feel your energy. Ask a woman is she can feel your energy in your fingers and if she can’t try to slow down and bring your energy to your hands. A man with energetic hands will keep a woman coming back for more.
TASTE: kiss. Kiss. Kiss. We want you to spend as much time as you can kissing us. Tug at our lips gently or aggressively when the time calls for this. Keep us entranced in your kiss. Trace your lips over our neck and behind our ears (no tongue in the ear that’s just gross). Suck on our breasts. Hang out with our bodies parts as if every square inch of us is a mystery you are trying to unravel.
SMELL: cook us food, bring us fresh cut flowers, light candles. Rouse our sense of smell with fragrances that enhance our world. Do you know what scents your woman loves? Smell good for us. Women like to linger around your neck, we like to kiss your body and get lost in the sweet nectar of your aroma too. The better you smell the more we like to get all up on you.
SOUND: talk to us. We want to hear your voice. Seduce us with your words, your mind and music. Give us your sound, in whatever fashion it speaks to YOU. We want to know you and know what you like to. Expose us to your world. The world of what ignites your senses. The world that you love to hear. Share it with us.
SIGHT: women want to be seduced too guys. We want to see what you got. We want you to bring out our inner animal. We want to look into your eyes and see the world through your eyes. The senses are a fabulous way to share who you are with a woman. Don’t hold back. The more you give the more a woman wants to give back.
Is there anything better than laughing your ass off? A man who has a good sense of humor, who doesn’t take himself or life so seriously is a great asset to a woman. Life is full of heavy demands and things that weigh you down. Humor allows a woman to see your wit, your take on life and the things that amuse you. The more you share your inner muse with a woman and let it rip, get her giggling and light, your dynamic will prosper. LET YOUR INNER COMEDIAN OUT. Believe me, you all have one.
The greatest gift you can give a woman is your presence. Presence is different than attention, it means your WHOLE BEING is engaged. Your heart and soul are in your eyes, emanating through every fiber of your being. A woman never has to wonder or ask where you are, she knows. She can feel you. You are right there, connected to yourself, nature, your masculine and the feminine, both within yourself and women. When you have presence you show up, drop in, invest and give of yourself.
A man with presence is connected to his soul and his heart and it shows. A man who has presence has so much presence that even when he is not with you, you know he’s with you. 🙂
4). WARRIOR SPIRIT – THE KING of BADASS
When you are a man who embodies his warrior’s spirit you don’t whine when your ego gets bruised. You don’t blame and shout, “Well, what about women? What about all their flaws?” When you embody your inner warrior you are a MAN who has harnessed his animal spirit and knows the sacredness of protecting the earth, women and children. A modern man who displays a Warrior Spirit is an Awakened Man. When you are a warrior you are at peace with nature. You LOVE and HONOR women. You do not compete with women. A warrior fights for what is fundamentally right and doesn’t waste his time with nonsense arguments that only serve to sustain EGO. A Warrior is a MAN of TRUE HONOR and INTEGRITY. He exists in every single man on this earth, but only a few have the COURAGE to activate the WARRIOR within. Women will stand next to Warrior’s till the end of time and will never stop looking for the Warrior in MEN. A warrior is a TRUE MAN.
5). TALENTED MR. CAPABLE
A man who might not be great at something but tries anyway, or a man who might have far to grow but is willing to accept adversity and challenge and overcome obstacles is a CAPABLE MAN. Capable men are cat nip to women. A capable man is accountable and responsible, and shows that he doesn’t need to be nagged to know what he must do. A capable man wants to be the best version of himself and has a sense of pride in what he does. Women love capable men because they care and they try. Capable men are dependable and self motivated with a sense of purpose.
A man who understands respect knows how to communicate and LISTEN. He operates from a place of respect for himself and is able to extend his respect outward to others more easily than a man who is not respected or feels threatened. A respectful man is not ruled by his own selfish impulses. He is not afraid and he is able to act in a way that doesn’t violate a woman’s boundaries. If a woman asks a respectful man to honor her request he will without question. A man who respects himself doesn’t need to demand respect. He already has it.
There is nothing like a man who likes to have a good time, who lusts for life, and craves adventure. A man with an adventurous spirit will get a woman out her comfort zone and dancing with the natives. Life can get so monotonous and ordinary, but eventually it lacks the level of passion and intrigue you all seek to feel ALIVE. A man with an adventurous spirit is impassioned by life and experience, which bodes well for a woman who likes to live and taste the unordinary.
8). EMOTIONAL and MENTAL INTELLIGENCE
A man with a mind and the ability to FEEL and articulate his emotions is the SEXIEST MAN ALIVE. A man who can self reflect and see a greater reality beyond himself is AWAKE. A man with an emotionally intelligent mind has vision, ideas, dreams, ambition, and drive. These desires come from his heart and less from his head. A man with a mind is far more likely to be reasonable and intriguing. A man who talks and thinks, and wants to unravel and unearth things is magnetic and intoxicating to listen to. I am not talking about your average intellect here. I am talking about 3rd eye wisdom here.
Attitude is EVERYTHING to a woman. No matter what a woman throws at a man, if he’s got a good attitude he is less likely to be reactive and more like to get to the bottom of what is really going on. He doesn’t bark back like a baby, he tries to understand what is what and process the situation. He reads in between the lines and doesn’t take things as personally as reactive short tempered men. Men with a good attitude typically have good style, taste, and they are NOT CHEAP. These men don’t cut corners. How they do anything is how they do everything and THEY KNOW IT and TAKE PRIDE IN WHAT AND HOW THEY DO WHAT THEY DO.
10). HANDY MAN
A man who can fix shit is SEXAY! A man who can fix the most random things, or a man who knows how to create something out of nothing is like a magician. Fixing things is masculine and for some reason women will find any excuse to take something off if a man fixes shit. I mean look at him, who wouldn’t want that right on the saw bench!
Let’s face it, no one likes boring. No passion, no edge, no fire, no spice might as well be a cardboard cut out of a man. A man with no edge is like a wet towel on your fire. Women like men that keep them on their toes. A man with edge is up for anything. He’s not just some bump on a log on the couch night after night. The man has a pulse and likes to get his hands wet, his lips dirty and he likes the pressure women apply. This one is no doormat. He’s the guy who is chasing you in the rain at 2 in the morning. He’s the guy who will get you to skinny dip anywhere. He is the kind of man that keeps it interesting and mixes it up. A man with an edge is strong willed and will take you to the ends of the earth.